Questions

I've noticed a lot of people talking about being grown. My question to the world is what defines this? I can certainly tell you what it's not; its not being 22 yrs old living at home with you boyfriend and your parents with no job. its not being 30 something yrs old trying to relive the glory days of your high school yrs. its not living off your younger girlfriend trying to regain a title that you had back when you was a teenager. Another thing that I've seen is these same people are the main ones constantly saying"I'm a grown ass man/woman." one would think that if that's the case why do you feel the need to keep saying it over and over? I was once told that real grown men/women don't need to acknowledge their growness your actions will show it. The funniest part of it all is that these same people get extremely angry when you comment on their life saying stay out of my business well dorks if you wouldn't advertise it then we wouldn't know whats going on to make a comment......rotflmaowtfbbq.

I understand that it's a recession going on but what I don't get is why do most use that as a excuse not to do anything to improve their self or their situation. It seems like pure laziness to me. You have those who have the opportunity to make their lives better yet they ignore it. Then it's those that have all the resources to do everything but wont do nothing. Prime example girl A(degree) has a side hustle making between $150.00 -$200.00 each week per client; but she could be making $700.00 per paycheck. Girl A half asses the side hustle and wont make the real money to get out her rut. Now girl B had the opportunity to make $2,500 per month but no way to get to the job. Instead of asking around she ignores this chance. Again lazy I really don't get it- if you don't have money or little to none then you should be busting or jumping on any opportunity that comes knocking. It's simple don't complain if your not willing to do whats need to change your situation.